Sunday, January 28, 2007
Recently recalled an article based on a true story which i read from one of the magazines. Its about an complicated relationship between a guy and a lady of which for convenience sake, i shall change their names to A for the lady and B for that guy. A and B are both in their twenties and they used to work in the same place. A used to dislike B very much due to his arrogance and partly because of the gossips that A used to hear from her other colleagues about his bad points so on and so forth. However after working for some time, both of them started to realise they actually shared quite a number of same interest and coincidently they can actually read each other's mind at times. Hence this brought the two of them closer together and A began to accept him as her friend.
Things were as per normal until B started talking about dates and relationships. At first A wasnt aware that B is actually trying to hint at her but one day A finally accepted his invitation to a date and it was A's first date. The date was followed by several other outings. However things started to become complicated and after sometimes B became quite cold to her and A eventually found out that he even tried his luck on other girls. Although A was hurt, A acted as if nothing has happened between them because A was confused. Actually, she wasnt sure whether are they just friends or is she really interested in him.
However one day A finally sorted out her feelings cos B doesnt turns out as what she expected of him as B being totally unaware of A's feeling started telling her about a girl that he met and what they did during the outing. Although A kinda hinted to B that its a date, B insisted that its more towards a outing with a long lost friend rather than a date. And the most dramatic thing that i found of A is that she actually encouraged him to date the girl and even told him the places that he could bring the girl to. After all A began to realise that they dont suit each other and it would best in interest for them to remain as friends and shortly after both of them left the work place putting to an end of the entangled relationship.
Anyway after reading the article, i just felt sad for the girl but its good that at least she learnt to let go cos the things caught between them shall be never ending and it is also good for her to start afresh in a totally new environment.
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