Tuesday, November 07, 2006
Time flies and today marks the end of my 3 mths probation but i havent gotten the confirmation letter yet cos my dept head is still on holiday. I can say these 3 months of life in the lab are quite interesting and fulfilling. After having exposed to the society for 3 months, it has made me grow up remarkably, in other words more matured bah. It took me just a few months to know that actually working life is much more complicated and stressful than studying. Life as a student is forever the best. Meanwhile it seems that life is getting more complicated too. I was interwined into something which wasnt expected and sometimes it can be quite hard to grab of people's thinking.
During a conversation with someone today, i was asked whether is it good for him to give up everything and go overseas perhaps somewhere in europe to pluck apples and jus lead a simple farming life because his friend also did the same thing due to a very bad break up. i had no comments for that question cos to me it seems to be too dramatic to give up everything and move urself overseas just because of a girl. Like the chinese saying, why give up the entire forest for just a tree. However, i find myself in no position to make any comments cos firstly i had no experience in BGR before and i am quite a serious person so i guess one day when i am really involved in such relationship, i may find it hard to let go too. Anyway relationship thingy are very complicated cos for people of our age, relationship isnt puppy love anymore. Its another stage of life and perhaps something that may hurts.
Like the saying again, fate bring us together. On one hand, i believe everything is fated but on the other hand, i also believe that fate is in our hands. We should have a control over our life...
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